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高考语文卷触发的焦虑,说说我为何让糯米读《论语》 -pg电子试玩

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有时候会觉得很抱歉——我在公众号上不断地分享“迫害”孩子的方法。

在糯米读小学之前,我曾经梳理过对她的期望,比如希望她人格健全、身体健康、保持好奇心等等;在此基础上,我思考了有哪些我能做的“功课”可以促成这些目标,最后发现,有三件事很重要:阅读、旅行和学英语。

也就是说,在糯米四年级以前,我对她的引导几乎与“古诗文”无关。

两个极端

在糯米尚年幼的时候,许多家长就已经开始带孩子“读经”了。令我叹为观止的是,这个“经”不仅包括《三字经》,还有《道德经》,甚至还有《易经》。

与此同时,也有许多人坚决反对孩子读经,视《弟子规》为封建主义毒草,只要一碰就会让孩子三观不正。

我对极端的声音有一种本能的抗拒,一方面不认为把《论语》倒背如流就意味着“与圣贤为伍”,另一方面也不认同会背弟子规就变成了故步自封的满清遗少。

教育是一项多因素的复杂任务,你不能指望做一件事就成就(或毁掉)一个孩子。

因此,在糯米上学之前,我给她念《三字经》、《弟子规》作为“催眠曲”;上学之后,要求她假期的时候每天背一首小学阶段的必背古诗,除此之外,并没有额外的古诗文输入了。

他山之玉

2018年春天,我在小花生社区读到了一个帖子《石中火论如何学好语文》。

这个帖子的主要内容,可以用作者的一段话来总结:“至于语文怎么学好,反正我自己的经验就是背诵经典,这个在别的帖子里谈过。背诵看起来很累很枯燥,但是背诵是捷径。背一两本书是看不出成效的,但是一旦背了5、6本书,自己的语文进展自己都看不懂。”
 

对于自己的语文成绩,作者可以说是相当傲娇了:“(我)读研的时候不想留在本校,跨校跨专业,结果考的比北大学了五年的专业课成绩都高。面试的时候,老师并不想考我啥,只是想知道我是怎么自学的。”

我对这样方法具体、效果显著的现身说法很感兴趣,研究下来发现,就是作者说的那句话“背5、6本书”。

顺便说一声,石中火推荐的背诵顺序是《论语》、《道德经》、《荀子》《庄子》

下点儿慢功夫,以获得长期、强大的能力,符合我一贯的育儿理念。

所以,这篇文章深深地印在了我的脑海里,在这两年里打开它学习过好几次。

触发

真正令我下决定的,是一沓高考真题。

去年暑假前,因为想要做精读思维导图系列的缘故,我买了一套《2013-2017 语文5年真题》,打算看看孩子们最终要面对的大boss长什么模样。

没想到一看之下大惊失色——原来高考的阅读理解第一部分是“古代诗文阅读”啊!占36分啊!

这么长的古文,且不说最终能不能读明白,光看完一遍就得花不少时间啊。

再看2013年的名篇名句默写题,我竟然一句也不会,简直疑心自己读的是“假高中”啊!

且顾不上万马奔腾了,我赶紧给糯米制定了每天1页的《论语》诵读计划。

行动

写这篇文章的时候,我一边写一边叹息“不够”——以糯米现在的进度,相比熟背5、6本古文,还差十万八千里啊。

孩子的时间有限,年级越高任务越重。这个暑假,糯米把大量的时间用在了奥数上,能坚持每天半小时的古诗文学习已经不容易了。我再不忍心给她增加学习任务。

按照现在的进度,恐怕到寒假,也刚能把《论语》学完——仅仅读15遍而已,达不到背熟的程度。

越是提前准备,应对学校的功课才越轻松啊。

我真希望自己能有一双慧眼,帮助孩子区分短期的、抱佛脚式的任务与长期的、受益一生的学习。

建议

如果您看到这篇小文,我有这样几个不成熟的建议:

1.重视古诗文是大趋势。

看看近几年的新闻以及央视层出不穷的“文化节目”,就知道大环境对汉语言文化的重视程度了。

所以,无论为了孩子的文学修养还是为了终将一战的高考,这一关都得过。

2.在理解的基础上诵读,记忆效果更持久。

孩子年龄越小越擅长机械记忆。机械记忆的缺点是,学习的维度太单一(仅仅记住了内容),容易遗忘。

如果想摆脱机械记忆魔咒,就得在选择教材上下功夫——选择较符合孩子年龄的材料,而不仅仅是“高大上”。

3.充分利用影音资源,立体式地学习。

想要把古诗文学好,必须具备相应的文史知识。如果这个任务让孩子的启蒙者——爸爸妈妈来解决,那就太困难了。

好在,近些年有许多人——比如于丹、蒙曼、二混子——致力于将知识“零食化”。

且不论这种现象的利弊,至少这意味着孩子们学习经典的门槛进一步降低了。

找到这样的音频/视频/书籍资源,帮助孩子增加接触经典的机会吧!(大家有好的介绍,也可以在留言里分享)

这些资料能够帮助孩子建立更为立体的古诗文知识库,在经典之中看到活生生的人,而不仅仅局限于死记硬背几篇古文。

4.早一点开始

“早”有各种好处,意味着小朋友时间更充足,更容易“摆布”;意味着可以慢慢儿来,更从容;意味着有更多时间发酵,有机会获得更大的能力提升。

最后,我想说的是,这些经典曾经是两千年里读书人必读、必背的书,是中国人安身立命的哲学,也是华夏文明之中不可或缺的一部分。

如今借考试之名让孩子学一学,未尝不是一件幸事。

你觉得呢?

这篇文章首发于我的原创公众号:糖纸匣子,欢迎大家围观


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5年前
我真想把我娃送给你
😂如果可以这样操作 搞不好我会把两只都送走
4年前
我现在陪着女儿一起读论语,希望能够坚持下去吧
4年前
刚上学的孩子读论语,有推荐的书吗?
3年前
我现在陪孩子读论语,慢的像蜗牛,好在一直坚持。
3年前
我家娃目前背诵了三字经 千字文 ,声律启蒙还在继续,看来还要背很长时间。
3年前
安妮3585362836 我家娃目前背诵了三字经 千字文 ,声律启蒙还在继续,看来还要背很长时间。
三字经,千字文和声律启蒙都不推荐。属于古典最垫底的内容了。
3年前
思路很棒。
3年前
喵0727 三字经,千字文和声律启蒙都不推荐。属于古典最垫底的内容了。
不会啊,都很经典啊
3年前
安妮3585362836 不会啊,都很经典啊
没听说引经据典引用三百千的,声律启蒙就更次了,词藻堆砌而已
3年前
收获满满,感谢分享!
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